At a recent family gathering, my cousin came up to me and said, “I’m calling you if I ever win the lottery.” Now, my cousin is a smart, successful businessman with an accounting background, so you can imagine the quizzical look he received and my inspired reply, “What?” He went on to explain that since my background was in fundraising, he thought I could help him decide where to donate his money. I was impressed for two reasons. One, his first thought was about giving away hi